Thursday, June 5, 2014

is it all about us???

Assalamualaikum


to be honest
really not in a good mood
masih belum sembuh 100%
husband batuk trok
sian dia

today iya sakit belakang
and ada spotting few days
a bit confuse between implantation bleeding or period
but let time decide that
xnak burden about that much
sbb badan xsedap
lebih focus nak sihat je niiii

anyway...
aritu kawan iya ni ada ngadu
A and B kawan iya
yang pengadu A
both of them same ofis
both of them ade anak kecik
anak A agak fragile
antibody xkuat
sejak lahir mmg sll sakit
sian.

anak B lak ada 2
both of them strong
but biasa laa demam ke ape kann

so nak jadikan cite
both of their kids dibawah pengasuh yg sama
bile one of the kid demam
for sure akan jangkit pada anak A
but if anak A demam
kadang xde anak B demam

pulak if anak A demam
dia xmcm budak lain
dia recover lambat sikit
mcm iya ckp td a bit fragile

so biase laa
ada terasa 
A xpuas ati B xcuti jaga anak
if anak A demam sbb jangkit xde minta maaf
A nak B paham situasi dia
so iya advice suh discuss elok2
ckp cara baik
talk face to face what they suppose to do if one of the kid demam

selang a few weeks
A ckp nampak mcm they paham each other
okay laaa


sampai laa baru semalam ni
A cakap B wat tak tahuuu je bile anak B demam
demam+batuk
jumpe doc kata tonsil je
even pastu naik ruam B wat tak tahu
igt punca dr tonsil

selang sikit guess what?
of course anak A kena plak
ada ruam gak.batuk.
jumpe doc ckp kena HFMD (hand, foot and mouth disease)
kes berat
A cuti for 10days
suami A naik angin
sampai bgado laki bini
marah2 sbb B punye hal wat dunno

so nowwwwwwwwww....
what say u?
u think people need to understand our situation?
i dont think so.
most of the time we tend to understand us.us.us.
we need people understand us.
it's all about us.

y not kite change the situation
benda ni gak iya ckp dia
dah B xpaham awk nak wat cmne
xkan nak gado
awk xleh wat org paham
dah dia mmg xkan paham n endah punye

so y not awk cube cari solution sendiri
try find other ways to solve it
u sdiri dah tahu anak u mcmane
y not upah personal org jaga anak dia
yes mmg akan lebih susah
but if itu paling terbaik kenapa tidak???
even the doctor pon suggest yg sama
the kid need full attention from her

nak benti keje mmg xmampu hal-hal lain byk lg nak cover
then she start to understand that something must be done

btw....A n B both my bestfriend yaaa

so a bit susah laa nk advice.huhu

so bagi iya sama laa gak kite TTC niiii
bg iya mmg payah nk bg org paham kite ni
contoh mcm smlm ade sorang ni anta wassap kat iya 
"happy mother's day"
main2 gamaknyee

iya mcm lantak engkau laaa
padahal dia tahu je kann iya xde anak

biar laa org
xyah laa kite nak gadoh2
kite cube saje.sabar byk2
mmg betul org xkan paham kiteee
betul betul
kite pun sama xleh nk paham org lain
org lain dugaan mcm2 gak
lagi trok kadang
tgk saje laaa anak2 di palestin syria tu
bersyukur lah kita
tundukkan ego kita
sabar

ok....
inshaaAllah kita semua boleh :)

4 comments:

  1. hmm..sabar jelah iya. rina fhm sgt perasaan iya tu.

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    1. hihi...bile kite in btwn -ve and +ve and try to hate others...we need ke arah +ve and love them the way they are :)

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  2. hurmm susah jgak kan bila jadi camni.. tmbh2 kita plak kna jadi org tgh.. huhuh..
    bila mcm ni masing2 kena ada sifat jgn pentingkan diri sndiri kan..

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    1. kannnnnnnn....tp itulahhhh.susah nk cakap sbb kite xalami.thats y bile kite sdiri ada prob,kite jgn xpect org paham kite.kite pon susah nk paham ape org alami and pkir :p

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